Saturday, November 21, 2009

OUR VISIT WITH SENATOR ENSIGN





Our family was asked to meet with Senator Ensign. I have to say that it was just an unreal visit. He is such a neat person and he took the time to talk to us, to share about his family and his son and to actually play with the kids. It is hard for Merrill and I to fathom why someone of his importance would even want to take the time to meet us and the children. We are still tickled as we think about just how special that day was.


Below is a picture, although not that good of the plaque that he presented to the family. We are truly humbled to have received this recognition.



Friday, November 13, 2009

A BROTHER TWO SISTERS and A VACATION









I am not even sure how to write this BLOG. It feels so undeserved and for the most part nearly selfish. I went on a seven day vacation without Merrill or the children. Yes, you read that right, no other members of this family went with me. WOW!!!

It all started nearly a year ago with a email sent to my brother and sister. For any of you that follow this blog, you know that our daddy passed away just a bit over two years ago. Our mama has been gone for most of our adult lives. The harsh reality that it is just the three of us, well it was really settling in at that time. Bobby called us, put us on speaker phone and told us that he was going to take Tammy and I anywhere in the United States that we wanted to go. It was our choice.

Well, it took a few months, but we decided that we wanted to go to Disney World. On many levels, that is just plain funny, but it turned into a trip of a life time. It was so way over the top that it was nearly unreal. It involved first class airline tickets, first class accommodations, first class restaurants, relaxation and fun, not to mention Disney World and everything else.


Bobby pulled out all stops to make this the best thing the three of us have ever done. After two nights at Sarasota Springs, he moved us to Disney's Animal Kingdom Lodge. I just can't begin to imagine that it gets any better than that. It is done as a theme of Africa, with the wild animals so close you almost feel you could attempt to reach out and touch them.



We laughed, we had fun, we talked and we got mad :o) after all, we are siblings first. This was such a great time for each of us. Thanks You Bobby for making this a great time.

Thursday, October 22, 2009

Press Release From Senator Ensign

Press Releases

Media

September 25, 2009

ENSIGN: CARSON CITY COUPLE TRULY ANGELS IN ADOPTION

Washington, D.C. – Senator John Ensign is proud to announce that his nominees for the Congressional Coalition on Adoption Institute’s Angels in Adoption Program have been selected to represent the state of Nevada for the extraordinary contributions they have made on behalf of children in need of homes. Roberta and Merrill Simon, of Carson City, have adopted 18 children over the past 30 years—most of whom have been special needs children.

“When you come across people like Roberta and Merrill Simon, you see what good there really is in the world,” said Ensign. “Having been adopted by my dad when I was a child, I know what an amazing gift adoption is. For the Simons to open their homes and their hearts to 18 children is beyond extraordinary. There is no better word to describe them than angels.”

The Simon’s children range in age from 15 months old to 30 years old. They have adopted children with short life expectancies and extreme disabilities.

Roberta Simon explained that the couple is humbled by the recognition but feel that there are many others that deserve it more. “We were brought together by tragedy, but we try not to define ourselves by those events in the children’s lives,” she stated.

The Angels in Adoption Program works to draw attention to the difference that adoption makes in a child’s life. The Congressional Coalition on Adoption Institute educates federal policymakers on the barriers that prevent children from being adopted. Deanna Workman & Denise Gernant were also selected to represent Nevada in this program.

Saturday, October 17, 2009

FROM THE NEVADA APPEAL...written by Teri Vance

Photo taken by Cathleen Allison. Nevada Appeal



Two years ago, 16-year-old Micah Simon weighed 129 pounds and didn't have the stamina to make it through a shopping trip.So his mother, Roberta, made changes to his diet and worked with Dayton Intermediate School to increase his exercise. Now, he weighs 106 pounds and keeps up with the family on regular outings.


“He's like a new kid,” Roberta said. As Micah, who suffers from Down syndrome, fetal alcohol syndrome and low-level cerebral palsy, made the transition to Dayton High School, his mother wanted to ensure he remained active.


Vice principal Tim Logan approached River Vista Fitness owner Phil Cowee about allowing Micah to use equipment there. As the conversation evolved, Cowee agreed to donate a recumbent exercise bike to the classroom and allow the students access to the gym.


“It started as something for Micah and blossomed into something wonderful that benefits the whole class,” Roberta said. “I was tickled to find out they were going to do it.”


Cowee said he was happy to provide the service. “We're a small community so we try to help out where we can,” he said.


Curtis Bent, who teaches comprehensive life skills to students with multiple handicaps, said the bike will help students maintain fitness and increase their longevity and quality of life. “It needs to part of their life's rhythms as it should be part of ours,” he said.


Although Micah cannot verbalize his feelings, Roberta said his smile and other gestures let her know he enjoys his time on the bike.


Aubrie Robards nodded vehemently when asked if she liked the exercise bike. And her mother is grateful.“Fifteen minutes on a stationary bike may not seem like much to most of us,” Wendy Robards said. “But for Aubrie, it means a chance at standing up longer on her legs to walk. More strength to hold her arms up to complete tasks, and the muscles in her heart will keep pumping blood.”


As the adoptive mother to 18 children with special needs, Roberta said she works to keep all of them as physically active as they can be. “It's easier for everyone to be sedentary,” she said. “They need exercise just like anyone else. They just go about it differently than you or I.”


Bent said in more than 30 years as a teacher he's always helped his students become fit. It complements other programs he's implemented where students, who range in age from 14 to 22, volunteer or work in the community to help them gain necessary skills.


He said by increasing their fitness, the students are setting a good example for him to follow.“I should be doing what I'm expecting of them,” he said.




Wednesday, October 07, 2009

Our Baby Girl is Growing Up....too fast!!!

Our beautiful little girl, our angel, Miss LisaMarie, born October 8, 1999. Time has flown by as we have had the joy of watching her grow.
She has always thought she was born a princess into this home and had had a very hard time accepting she was a mere commoner :o)

She loves sports and really loved taking swimming. My guess it was the crush on the teacher that brought her the furthest. She could have been in the Olympics if he had kept it up. It was wonderful.



She is our pride and our joy...our Rose amongst the thrones as he daddy says. Yes, today she turns ten and life is passing us by fast. All to soon she will be a lady. We will have to cherish the days and years ahead.


We love you LisaMarie. You are one of God's greatest gifts to our family.
All our love, Mom and Dad.

Friday, September 11, 2009

Pity Party, Maybe...just not really sure

Today has been a busy day. This family is always busy on many levels. I have been at the schools so many times in the last four weeks that it nearly makes my head spin. IEP's out the yingyang. We have made the choice to have Micah moved out of the school he really needed to be in and have him start High School. Yes, he is 16, but he will be in school till he is 22, so we did what we felt was best for him. It became obvious to all that it was not and he had to make the move. He starts next Tuesday.

Also last week Merrill and I got word that we have been nominated to receive the Angels In Adoption Award. While we really do consider it a very high honor, why do they only give you three weeks notice? In that three weeks we are to secure travel to Washington DC, get care providers for 11 special children, get the time off from work, make arrangements for a place to stay while in DC and on and on the list goes.

As Merrill and I faced the task at hand, it has become clear that it will not happen for us. The children need to have someone we trust stay with them and this go around that is not going to happen on such short notice. I guess one of the harsh realities of this journey we travel is that respite care is hard to come by. For some strange reason no one calls up and offers to watch the children for the day, much less for five days....LOL.

Still, life it was it is and for the most part it is a pretty great life. I am not sure that I would have handed picked this journey for myself, but I am tickled to be on it. Thanks for sharing a small part of the ride with us. Hugs to all.

Thursday, August 20, 2009

Another Amazing Gift...a Blessing for sure.

Merrill and I have always said that God has always provided for all of our needs and many of our wants. We sometimes never know where the blessing come from, but we give Him the glory. We have wanted and dreamed of a larger play set for the children. Lookie what arrived at our home!!!! This play set is huge and the children have been so happy with it. Mordachi can use his arms to pull his body up so he can slide down. It takes work, but he has such a sense of accomplishment and the joy on his face is priceless. Adults can even go up and slide down and they can swing on the swing.



We have ordered a ground cover so that Joseph can go out and enjoy it also. Right now there is too much dirt to kick up so it is not safe with his trach. Micah had so much fun in the dirt, but hey, he had a blast. Jericho enjoys the swings. Maverick is eyeballing it already. It is fun to watch his 15 month old mind going to work already. He will be ready to go soon enough. Enjoy the pictures. I promise to post more soon. This is a work in progress and we fix it all up.



Again, To God Be The Glory. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You.



Taken from our deck

Oh man, the dirt...LOL

Up Goes McClain

McClain and His Friend Nolan

Up Goes Joey.

LisaMarie on the climbing rope/swing







Monday, August 17, 2009

ALL IN THE FAMILY

Story by Master Sgt. Michael J. Lacuesta

Sgt. Merrill Simon is a force to be reckoned with. Standing an impressive 6 feet 11 inches, he is looked up to more than people look up at birds in the sky. This resident of Moundhouse, Nevada, a small community east of Carson City, is looked up to with respect and dignity.

Simon was born on October 18, 1955 in Long Beach California. Simon met his wife, Roberta at Bethany Nazarene College in Bethany, Oklahoma in 1977. Roberta and Merrill were married on June 30, 1978 and are the proud parents of 16 children with one more on the way. Early in their marriage, Roberta and Merrill Simon learned they would not be able to have their own children, along with events early in Roberta's life, they decided to look at Special needs adoptions. Each one of these children has severe emotional and/or physical special needs, ranging from fetal alcohol syndrome to more severe medical needs such as blindness, deafness, tracheotomy, Cerebral palsy, wheelchair dependent and many require 24 hour care. These special parents do everything they can to provide a loving and nurturing home for these children and are committed to the lifetime care many of these children will require in the future. Due to their medical conditions, two of these children have passed away, each having left this world long after the doctors had predicted they would pass. While the family dearly misses these two little ones, they feel their mission has always been to provide the best possible home, with as much love and care as can be provided.

Simon has a total of 33 years, to include 25 years of commissioned service in the United States Army Reserve and the Army National Guard. His present assignment is working with the S6 at Headquarters & Headquarters Company (HHC). 5th Brigade, 75th Division. His civilian occupation in an I.T. Technician with the Nevada Department of Transportation, Carson City, Nevada.

Simon is a man who has dedicated his life to help others. The 5th Brigade is proud to call him one of their own. He is living up to the motto "Army Strong."

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This article was published in the Bulge Buster. Winter 2008/2009. Needless to say, we really got two children for the price of one...LOL. So that gives us the 18 wonderful children.

Here in the Simon household we are just lucky and blessed to call him husband and dad.

We Love You Merrill and We are Proud of You and All You Stand For!!!!




Wednesday, August 12, 2009

JASON KOEHLER SIMON 11-12-86 to 08-12-01
















Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Gone From Our Lives, NEVER From Our Hearts.

Malachi Isaiah-Jacob Simon 10-22-90 to 07-29-97
How does a family ever really have to say goodbye to a child? How do they watch the suffering from something as painful as liver cancer? How do they move on from that place in their lives, the place that hurts so deep in places you never knew you could hurt? I am not really sure, but I know that God plays a huge part in that painful recovery. We loved Malachi more than life itself. He was a part of what made Me Roberta. When he died a part of me died also.
Today we celebrate his life. We celebrate that in his passing, we have indeed become a stronger family. We enjoy his memory and all that he brought to this family. We find joy that his siblings that never really knew him, now know him. We take great pride that he chose us to be his family and allowed us to help him though his toughest days. He taught us to be strong and to cling to the fact that one day we will see him again. Yes, he was ripped from us at such a young age, but his life had meaning. He touched so many people. He will live on through all of us.
Merrill, Marshal and Malachi

The Family and Cloudy


Roberta and Malachi at Disney World

Hiking the Tahoe Rim Trail. Michael with Malachi.


Malachi's Last Christmas...at the Hospital


In PICU

The Kids...Mallory Maxwell, Jason, Marshal, Michael, and Malachi.


Malachi

Acting Silly :o)